「HEARMAMA」Vol.58 売られた喧嘩は選んで買おう

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エピソード57の続編で、”parental rage”や”mom rage”(親が子どもに対して感じる怒りのこと)について、「Aha! Parenting」というウェブサイトの記事を紹介します。

“Choose your battles”というアドバイスは、わたしが子育て全般において心がけてることだったりします。売られた喧嘩をなんでも買わずに、自分の時間や労力をかける価値がある喧嘩を選びたい。

Every negative interaction with your child uses up valuable relationship capital. Focus on what matters, such as the way your child treats other humans. In the larger scheme of things, his jacket on the floor may drive you crazy, but it isn’t worth putting your relationship bank account in the red over. Remember that the more positive and connected your relationship with your child is, the more likely he is to follow your direction.



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